this quote so frequently heard/read:

"Never regret anything because at one time it was exactly what you wanted"

for a period of time. it was really useful in telling me that my decisions werent a regret.

suddenly..this thought just comes..

but what if at that time what i wanted was wrong? yes.. there were reasons for the decisions..but what if those were stupid insignificant reasons that seemed really huge at that moment..:/

and this mantra stops being effective..

the word impulsive totally counters that quote 110%.

its really a small matter.. but now..any other method to make me not regret things?!

i think im having this internal battle between my ideal self and actual self. ideal self is trying it best to talk actual self round but actual self's not listening!